The Sunday Cliché

So they say, “You should go to church on Sundays.” In reply, let me share an excerpt from the song A House is not a Home:
A chair is still a chair, even when there’s no one sittin’ there
But a chair is not a house and a house is not a home
When there’s no one there …

Similarly, a Christian family is a church. A group of Christians meeting together in a church. But a building with no Christians is not a church. A mixed gathering of Christians and nominal Christians is not a church either. So, a church is not a place that Christians need to go on Sundays. Instead, Jesus Christ said, “For where two or three are gathered in My name, there am I among them.” (Mat 18:20)

Consequently, when we gather as a family to study the Bible – with me, a pastor, leading them in the study of the Scripture, together with other people – what then is lacking? Do we need a choir singing to complete our gathering?

Yes, we do meet on Sundays. We meet mostly online – not in the same manner as conventional Christianity does. Sundays just happen to be a common free day for everyone. And my family together at home, others in their respective homes meeting us online, we meet mainly to study the Word of God.

“Greet also the church in their house. Greet my beloved Epaenetus, who was the first convert to Christ in Asia.” (Rom 16:5)

“The churches of Asia send you greetings. Aquila and Prisca, together with the church in their house, send you hearty greetings in the Lord.” (1Co 16:19)

“Give my greetings to the brothers at Laodicea, and to Nympha and the church in her house.” (Col 4:15)

“Paul, a prisoner for Christ Jesus, and Timothy our brother, To Philemon our beloved fellow worker and Apphia our sister and Archippus our fellow soldier, and the church in your house:” (Phm 1:1-2)

House church was normative then. It isn’t wrong then, how can it be wrong now? It preserves the sanctity of the church better than mass gatherings. Unless of course, the host of the house church allows false teachers to be part of their gatherings – or worse, was allowed to lead the church. Isn’t that a more dangerous thing among mega-churches today? See all congregations that have opened their doors to the now infamous, late Ravi Zacharias.

The ideal model for house churches is to have, if possible, both parents leading the family in the reading and study of God’s Word. I understand in most cases it’s a son or a daughter who first came to faith. If the family is amicable to learn the faith, then by all means let the matured Christian in their midst lead – whosoever that may be. But if it’s not workable at the moment, then by all means join your pastor online for the study of the Word. Keep in mind that anyone who leads should be properly mentored first and tested, not a recent convert (1Tim 3:6-7). Pastors should focus on the training of believers in the study of God’s Word (Ephesians 4:11-14), not spoon-feeding them but training them to exegete the Scripture.

Worship? Jesus Christ said, “This people honors Me with their lips, but their heart is far from Me; in vain do they worship Me, teaching as doctrines the commandments of men.” (Mat 15:8-9)

Sure, anyone could offer a song of praise to the Lord. But the idea of recruiting people based on their singing talents just to form a choir and yet unconverted or living in sin should be stopped.

Christ Jesus again teaches: “But the hour is coming, and is now here, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father is seeking such people to worship Him. God is spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth.” (Jhn 4:23-24)

The Christian life – that is, living according to the will, purpose, and teachings of Christ Jesus – isn’t that the true essence of worship?

On the other hand, are you sure everyone going to the Sunday gathering is a Christian? If so, then, there should be no conflicts, evil schemings, and the like. The bigger the congregation, the more complex the gathering becomes, making it far more difficult for a pastor to discern intimately the attendees.

Actually the Bible warns us, saying:

“Do not become partners with those who do not believe, for what partnership is there between righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship does light have with darkness? And what agreement does Christ have with Beliar? Or what does a believer share in common with an unbeliever? And what mutual agreement does the temple of God have with idols? For we are the temple of the living God, just as God said, “I will live in them and will walk among them, and I will be their God, and they will be My people.” Therefore “come out from their midst, and be separate,” says the Lord, “and touch no unclean thing, and I will welcome you, and I will be a father to you, and you will be My sons and daughters,” says the All-Powerful Lord.” (2Co 6:14-18, NET)

Understand that the passage above applies to the context of the church. By extension, it certainly applies to our choices for life partners. Scripture says in marriage the couple becomes one, no longer two separate individuals. Therefore, by carelessly choosing an unbeliever as a partner in life, you knowingly complicate the body of Christ.

The Bible said, “Do you not know that you are God’s temple and that God’s Spirit dwells in you? If anyone destroys God’s temple, God will destroy him. For God’s temple is holy, and you are that temple.” (1Co 3:16-17)

On the other hand, as individual Christians, we shouldn’t isolate ourselves from unbelievers. Otherwise, who are we to reach out and share the Gospel to? Let the light of the Gospel shine before others. Sharing the Gospel is not all talk. Scripture said, “But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves (Jas 1:22).” Demonstrate your faith by your life and deeds, not words only.

I do not mean to say that everyone going to the Sunday gatherings is not a Christian. Rather, not everyone is a Christian. That’s a fact that cannot be denied, otherwise, you are in denial or worse a hypocrite.

So, why not gather and have fellowship only with those you know and ascertain are Christians? Study the Word of God together. Listen and care for one another, without any fear of judgment or being a target of rumormongering.

On the other hand, for proponents of the church hierarchy, the need for the leadership of presbytery, or the need to meet regularly on a Sunday, kindly provide me clear and straightforward passage in Scripture upholding your positions. If it’s just by inference to tradition, then it’s just a personal conviction, a tradition of men. It does not hold water. Now, if your argument is based on Hebrews 10:25, then it’s evident you don’t know the Scripture.

Learn the discipline of exegesis. Study Hebrews 10:25 from its context. Check the Greek word for “meet together”, cross reference the word within the entire NT writings, and see how it was used and alluded to. After you have done a proper study on the word and have learned its true meaning, surely you would understand how Hebrews 10:25 has been manipulated and misused. This also applies to everyone who insists that Sunday is the Lord’s day, once you have studied it rightly.

The command in Scripture to appoint an elder (Titus 1:3) was to protect the Christian community from false teachings. It does not call on an elder or elders to formulate rules, regulations, or anything similar to govern a congregation, only to rebuke and correct false doctrine.

Modern Christianity has deviated from the Scripture’s model of a church. The church is not an organization formulated and governed by men. The redeemed body of Christ Jesus, the communities of believers, with Christ Jesus alone as the Head of the body – that is the true church of the Scripture.

Keep in mind Christ’s Word: “And I also say to you that you are Peter, and on this Rock I will build My church, and the gates of Hades will not overpower it.” (Mat 16:18)

Christ Jesus will always be the Rock (1Co 10:4), the cornerstone (Acts 4:11) of God’s true temple (Eph 2:19-21), and the church.

Let us not be part of the modern, yet complex Christianity. Turn to Jesus Christ and His Word, and learn Christianity simplified. At the end of the day, it’s all about the faith.

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