The Bible stresses the significance of friendship. It states, “Do not abandon your friend and your father’s friend, and do not seek refuge in your brother’s house during your calamity. A neighbor who is close is preferable to a brother who is far away.” (Proverbs 27:10)
Like us, our friends aren’t perfect. But as friends, we ought to be honest about ourselves. No need to disguise our shortcomings. True friends would embrace both our strengths and weaknesses.
However, when deception comes into the open. How can people trust whether it’s another disguise or this time it’s the truth?
As a saying goes, “Trust is like a bridge; you burn it, you can’t cross it anymore” – Unknown
Moreover, it would be disrespectful to yourselves to allow someone dishonest to deceive you repeatedly. As the saying goes, “Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.”
Friendships require both trust and respect, and they are built over time. However, they can be destroyed in an instant, just like bridges.
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